Relationships | What does it take?
If you want healhy relationships, they all need love, respect, and personal space. Tip: If it's not returned to you, don't be afraid to ask for it. Everyone needs something in relationships ... whether it is compassion or respect, love or understanding. You have to give it in order to receive it. Earning and deserving it are built into the relationships equation. Take one element away and the equation no longer works.
Second tip: Healthy relationships are achieved by allowing each other's individuality, privacy and, dare I say it again, personal space. To avoid the codependence trap, maintain your own life in order to share your loved ones lives, for how can you share what you don't have?
Consider that if what you need in relationships you do not give freely and unconditionally, then you are ingenuine and the giving by others will fester into resentment. Another tip: is available to members only.
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Be certain you Get Your Self Straight before you attempt to right your relationships. An understanding of your personal Self is mandatory.
- Good Book Reference:
- Awareness by Anthony de Mello
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